Weight
control is hard due to stress eating or emotional eating. It’s not exclusively
our fault we eat too much; it’s one very normal human response to conflict. We
look for a quick fix to the dilemma we are in, or the stress we are feeling.
Chocolate, ice cream, or just plain old over-eating brings some immediate
relief, so we indulge.
Recently I was in a high stress environment preparing for a monthly training meeting I would conduct/lead with my boss listening in from a 1500 mile away over a Polycom speaker-phone system. I have done these kinds of meetings on a large scale for years, but I still get anxious as I prepare. Speaking in front of a group is a huge fear for most of us. It’s a normal human response.
The secret is learning a long term strategy to deal with conflict in a new and more productive way. I have been winning most of these battles in recent months as I have lost over 41 lbs. Recently I lost my weight-loss focus and gave in to several luscious chocolate covered sugar cookies, and over the process of 6 hours to a snickers bar (drat, I do love those things), and a couple of bowls of sugar puffs with 2% milk. I hadn’t eaten any of these trigger foods for quite awhile.
By the time I went to bed I was feeling bloated, but not discouraged. My recent success losing significant weight helped me realize I would get back on the wagon and stay vigilant until my next official weigh-in. If you don’t mess up too often during a weight loss program your metabolism cleans out your system and keeps your body working toward success. My thinking was confirmed when I arrived at the day for my weight check. All was not lost, since my body was still in metabolic weight loss mode.
This morning I added some extra fiber to my 70 calorie shake, which helped clean out my over-full system. I have learned to really love those shakes about as much as my trigger foods. Dutch Chocolate, Strawberry, and Orange Shakes taste so good. And thus I am back on my nutrition program and not letting a short binge cause long term melt down. That has made the difference in my success on my program. I won't allow myself to get discouraged when I mess up and thereby continue the damage and slow my metabolism.
So to review, here is weight loss tip #2: Don’t get discouraged if you stray from your program. The added stress just perpetuates the problem of conflict eating. You have an escape route built in when you have developed the habit of six-small-meals daily. Your food is in place and you know how to enjoy each small meal.
One of my main reasons for believing so intensely in this approach to weight loss is how I have adapted to this lifestyle. It really has not been too hard after the first few weeks. I feel healthier and stronger. Gradually I have increased my activity. I am up to one hour of exercise 4 times per week with both cardio and weights. I am lifting 2 sets of weights for all my “old-guy” muscle groups. I no longer feel faint-headed when at the gym burning off 400-500 calories my daily allotment.
My desire is to maintain this eating style for the duration of my life. The calories per day will rise when I get to my goal weight but the 6 meals approach will stay in place. My stretching and exercise will increase. I will weigh in daily to keep monitoring any changes in my body-fat levels. If I notice weight gain beyond 3-5 lbs I will cut back on calories for a few days and get back to my goal weight.
Another secret; some of my “Lean and Green” meal have been from “Healthy Choice” microwavable prepackaged meals and steamers---yes, from the store. I started doing this while my wife Jeannie was away helping our oldest daughter who had some surgery recently. These meals come closest to the requirement for a “Lean and Green” with 300 – 350 calories. It is the one meal per day not provided by my program. Each costs about $3.00 if you look for the sales.
Overall our food budget for me has not gone up much at all on this nutrition program.
So don’t get discouraged should you be normal and mess up for a few hours or even a few days. Just get back on your program as soon as you can. Every day is a new horizon and the future always looks promising.
Recently I was in a high stress environment preparing for a monthly training meeting I would conduct/lead with my boss listening in from a 1500 mile away over a Polycom speaker-phone system. I have done these kinds of meetings on a large scale for years, but I still get anxious as I prepare. Speaking in front of a group is a huge fear for most of us. It’s a normal human response.
The secret is learning a long term strategy to deal with conflict in a new and more productive way. I have been winning most of these battles in recent months as I have lost over 41 lbs. Recently I lost my weight-loss focus and gave in to several luscious chocolate covered sugar cookies, and over the process of 6 hours to a snickers bar (drat, I do love those things), and a couple of bowls of sugar puffs with 2% milk. I hadn’t eaten any of these trigger foods for quite awhile.
By the time I went to bed I was feeling bloated, but not discouraged. My recent success losing significant weight helped me realize I would get back on the wagon and stay vigilant until my next official weigh-in. If you don’t mess up too often during a weight loss program your metabolism cleans out your system and keeps your body working toward success. My thinking was confirmed when I arrived at the day for my weight check. All was not lost, since my body was still in metabolic weight loss mode.
This morning I added some extra fiber to my 70 calorie shake, which helped clean out my over-full system. I have learned to really love those shakes about as much as my trigger foods. Dutch Chocolate, Strawberry, and Orange Shakes taste so good. And thus I am back on my nutrition program and not letting a short binge cause long term melt down. That has made the difference in my success on my program. I won't allow myself to get discouraged when I mess up and thereby continue the damage and slow my metabolism.
So to review, here is weight loss tip #2: Don’t get discouraged if you stray from your program. The added stress just perpetuates the problem of conflict eating. You have an escape route built in when you have developed the habit of six-small-meals daily. Your food is in place and you know how to enjoy each small meal.
One of my main reasons for believing so intensely in this approach to weight loss is how I have adapted to this lifestyle. It really has not been too hard after the first few weeks. I feel healthier and stronger. Gradually I have increased my activity. I am up to one hour of exercise 4 times per week with both cardio and weights. I am lifting 2 sets of weights for all my “old-guy” muscle groups. I no longer feel faint-headed when at the gym burning off 400-500 calories my daily allotment.
My desire is to maintain this eating style for the duration of my life. The calories per day will rise when I get to my goal weight but the 6 meals approach will stay in place. My stretching and exercise will increase. I will weigh in daily to keep monitoring any changes in my body-fat levels. If I notice weight gain beyond 3-5 lbs I will cut back on calories for a few days and get back to my goal weight.
Another secret; some of my “Lean and Green” meal have been from “Healthy Choice” microwavable prepackaged meals and steamers---yes, from the store. I started doing this while my wife Jeannie was away helping our oldest daughter who had some surgery recently. These meals come closest to the requirement for a “Lean and Green” with 300 – 350 calories. It is the one meal per day not provided by my program. Each costs about $3.00 if you look for the sales.
Overall our food budget for me has not gone up much at all on this nutrition program.
So don’t get discouraged should you be normal and mess up for a few hours or even a few days. Just get back on your program as soon as you can. Every day is a new horizon and the future always looks promising.
Keep up the good work. The only slip I have had is pigging out on shrimp. It is very important to just keep going.
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